We have all all been through that dating experience. - you meet the guy, you have the hots for each other, you go on a few dates, things ge...
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We have all all been through that dating experience. - you meet the guy, you have the hots for each other, you go on a few dates, things get even hotter, everything’s going just smoothly – and then bam!
All of sudden either you or he is not interested any more. And those fluttering butterflies in your stomach, along with your hammering heartbeat, have disappeared.Poof! Gone . . . And you’re not quite sure what went wrong. Or what even happened in the first place.
So what happened?
Sometimes your beau suddenly loses interest because he’s become aware of some aspect of your personality that mirrors something in himself that needs to change.
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| Choose Right: Is he Mr Right or Mr Right Now? |
And the same goes for you. We hold up mirrors to each other when we become intimately involved.
We reflect each other’s deepest issues and hang-ups
Sometimes, what you find in the mirror is not pretty or easy to deal with. And then you want to get rid of the mirror. This is a completely natural process.
It’s how people grow and develop as they age. So you might as well make this work for yourself.
How does it work?
When you feel strong, energetic and attracted to someone, you take the characteristics that most
annoy or appeal to you in that person and compare it against a list of characteristics in yourself.
The results will help you identify the mirrors you’re working with. Write down what these
“issues” are you don’t like in the “mirror” and work on them.
Healing your broken heart
As you find the big lesson, you’ll suddenly find you feel much better and may even bounce back from your break-up more quickly.
Change the kind of partner you attract
This awareness will ensure you don’t keep attracting the same kind of partner, with the same kind of issues, into your life.
It’s really handy for when you want to break out of a dating rut or finally track Mr Right down. If not, just deal with Mr Okay – for now! Either way, the choice is yours. – Women24
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